This is a subject that is very near and dear to my heart. I lost my father suddenly, when I was 14 years old. He was pretty young when he died. He was only 49 years old. My father raised me and my sister to know that we were loved by him and that we were special. When he brought my mother gifts on Valentine’s … Continue reading Does having a father in your life influence the success of your relationship?
The quarantine can be good for your relationship if you actually enjoy each other’s company. It can be a good time to reconnect with your partner especially if you both spend a lot of time working and attending to your children. It is a good time to get creative and rekindle the flame if it has burned out. I was on facebook and I saw … Continue reading Is quarantine good for your relationship?
I was in the same relationship for 18 years. Out of the 18 years that I was in that relationship, I was married for 9 of those years. The marriage was horrific and I finally found the courage to end it. I am not advocating for divorce but it was the best option for me. I was so broken that I never thought I would … Continue reading Built me up to break me
I was looking at one of the news website and saw that my ex’s job has quite a few coronovirus cases. Although, we broke up and I know that I should not be in a relationship with him ever again, I still care about his well-being. I immediately felt panic and was concerned about whether he was ok or if he was one of the … Continue reading The coronvirus strikes again
I am still single and not ready to mingle, however I do want to get married again one day. When I do find that special person, I pray that it is my forever love. You see I grew up with both of my parents who had a love that I can only dream about. They were kindreds spirits. They were definitely one. They loved each … Continue reading Til Death Do Us Part
If someone shows you who they really are, believe them the first time they show you. It is so easy to make excuses for somebody’s behavior and believe they were just having a moment or a bad day. You want to believe that they will never act a certain way again or talk to you disrespectly again, especially if they apologize to you for how … Continue reading If someone shows you who they really are believe them
I don’t if you know this, but love shouldn’t hurt. It is so easy to say the words I love you, but it is actually how you treat someone that tells them whether you love them or not. If the person that claims they love you is constantly hurting you, then they do not love you. Love is definitely an action word but it doesn’t … Continue reading Love shouldn’t hurt
People look at me and they think I have it all together, but in actually I don’t. Sure, I have a great career and a job I absolutely love. My spiritual life is getting better by the day. I have two awesome boys. However, when it comes to my love life it is an absolute mess. I have always been the person that my friends … Continue reading I’m good at giving advice to my friends, but my love life is a mess.
I often wonder if people really know what love is. Any time somebody tells me that they love me but their actions do not line up with loving me, I always tell them that love is an action word. When you love somebody, you don’t want to hurt them. You want what is best for them and you want to protect them. So I say, … Continue reading How can you “intentionally” hurt someone you say you love?