Does having a father in your life influence the success of your relationship?

This is a subject that is very near and dear to my heart. I lost my father suddenly, when I was 14 years old. He was pretty young when he died. He was only 49 years old. My father raised me and my sister to know that we were loved by him and that we were special. When he brought my mother gifts on Valentine’s … Continue reading Does having a father in your life influence the success of your relationship?

Is quarantine good for your relationship?

The quarantine can be good for your relationship if you actually enjoy each other’s company. It can be a good time to reconnect with your partner especially if you both spend a lot of time working and attending to your children. It is a good time to get creative and rekindle the flame if it has burned out. I was on facebook and I saw … Continue reading Is quarantine good for your relationship?

If someone shows you who they really are believe them

If someone shows you who they really are, believe them the first time they show you. It is so easy to make excuses for somebody’s behavior and believe they were just having a moment or a bad day. You want to believe that they will never act a certain way again or talk to you disrespectly again, especially if they apologize to you for how … Continue reading If someone shows you who they really are believe them

I’m good at giving advice to my friends, but my love life is a mess.

People look at me and they think I have it all together, but in actually I don’t. Sure, I have a great career and a job I absolutely love. My spiritual life is getting better by the day. I have two awesome boys. However, when it comes to my love life it is an absolute mess. I have always been the person that my friends … Continue reading I’m good at giving advice to my friends, but my love life is a mess.

How can you “intentionally” hurt someone you say you love?

I often wonder if people really know what love is. Any time somebody tells me that they love me but their actions do not line up with loving me, I always tell them that love is an action word. When you love somebody, you don’t want to hurt them. You want what is best for them and you want to protect them. So I say, … Continue reading How can you “intentionally” hurt someone you say you love?