Hot and Cold

What do you do when you are in a relationship where one minute the person likes you and the next minute they don’t? That is called being in a hot and cold relationship. It is not cool. You should not be in a situation where you are receiving mixed singles. Usually people know if they like each other right away. Sure, over time you may annoy each other from time to time, but for the most part you genuinely like each other. You enjoy each other’s company. You are happy to see one another. You should be comfortable in your relationship. You shouldn’t be worried about your significant other’s reaction to you. You should be 100% sure that they like you. You should never feel edgy about talking to or spending time with your significant other because you don’t know whether they are going to treat you well that day. If you are feeling like, “I don’t even know if you like me”, at any time in your relationship, there is a huge problem. It is not cool. It is definitely a warning sign that this is not the relationship for you.

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