Can’t Buy Me Love

Valentine’s Day used to mean so much to me, but now that I have been single for over a year I have a totally different perspective. I used to anticipate the moment that my ex-husband presented me with my gifts or left me a surprise while I was at work. If he would have forgottenContinue reading “Can’t Buy Me Love”

It’s not how you start, it’s how you finish!

The beginning of my relationship was phenomenal. I just knew this guy had to be the one. I was ecstatic. I finally found the man of my dreams. He was very attentive and caring. He seemed genuinely interested in what I had to say, my likes and my dislikes. He did things to show meContinue reading “It’s not how you start, it’s how you finish!”

Stop apologizing when it isn’t your fault.

I have been in many romantic relationships, where I took the blame for everything that went wrong rather it was my fault or not. I felt like if I did this it would make the other person feel better or it would avoid additional conflict. I was taking on the burden of keeping the relationshipContinue reading “Stop apologizing when it isn’t your fault.”