It’s almost that time of year again. The time of year where everyone makes New Year’s resolutions that they often don’t follow through with. After the year we have had, I am sure a lot of us have done a lot of self-reflection. I myself reflected on my life and my poor decisions in the love department. I decided to focus on self-love instead of finding the love of my life. I am 100% sure, once I love myself like I should, my true love will find me. During my journey, I have found that one of the hardest things to do is to recognize your own flaws and how you contribute to how people treat you. It is definitely the first step to true healing. It’s difficult to understand what causes you to draw the same type of people to you that cause you hurt and harm. How do you keep from repeating the same cycle over and over? It can be frustrating when you can’t figure out why you keep ending up in the same situations. Once you do, it will be the key to you overcoming your obstacles and pain. I am still focusing on self-love, but I have no doubt that all of the work I am doing on myself will pay off.