I have been single for over 4 months now and I can honestly say that I am really happy. I am definitely single and not ready to mingle. My past relationships have taught me that I really need to take time out to analyze my life and love myself completely before getting into another relationship. My next relationship will definitely need to be the “Right Relationship”. Let’s be honest, I am not getting in younger, so I don’t have time to waste in relationships that are not the right fit for me.
While being single, I have really been enjoying being my authentic self. This is going to sound bad, but it feels good not being obligated to spend time with someone. My last relationship became somewhat of a burden, because my significant other was so high maintenance. If I ever needed time for myself, he would take it personal and be upset with me for days. It’s nice to spend my weekends doing whatever I want or doing absolutely nothing. I have found that if you start loving yourself and start living your life the way you need to, the right person will come into your life when you least expect it. For now, I am single and not ready to mingle, well at least not yet.